Sexuality is a need we have.
Research and experience shows us that not having sex, or not having fulfilling sex and being “orgasm deprived” has consequences on our emotional life and behaviour. Depressive mood, frustration, nervousness, nail biting, lip biting, hair biting, compulsive shopping, over- eating and drug abuse can have a relation to a non-satisfying sexuality.
If we have sex, a lot of physical, emotional and spiritual desires and needs can be fulfilled. The need for touch, the need for belonging, the need for surrender, the need for release, the need for being loved, and the need for being wanted.
Do you get what you need and desire when you have sex?
Having an orgasm is not only an enjoyable, lustful, peak- experience for our whole being. While we have the wave of an orgasm moving through our body, an enormous tension is released, hormones are activated and a chemical infusion of healthy enzymes is set free.
Do you like sex?
Do you get what you need? Do you know what you need concerning your sexuality?
Having drawn this card it is maybe time to stop pitying yourself that you are alone, and have joy with yourself masturbating? Find out what pleases you, be your own teacher and pupil, go find a beautiful shop where you feel respected and buy some lustful toys!
Maybe it is time to tell your partner in a loving way about what your needs, likes and dislikes are and about what turns you on?
Maybe you are dissatisfied and desperate and it is time to search for support and visit a sex- counsellor or hypnotherapist?
Maybe it is time to be grateful that you have a wonderful sex life that enriches your physical, emotional and spiritual life?